Talk:Disney Create/@comment-10539131-20140524145942/@comment-12736261-20140524211913

okay derp this is a hard thing to go throught. everything you say can effect her. I mean, I know you wouldn't just be like "I HATE YOU YOU SUCK" but if you were to, then you would have just killed her.

Getting an adult to help only makes them feel worse. Kids connect with each other better.

Don't just be like "Oh you are too good for suicide, you are a strong girl. Get over your depression" that will remind them of their sadness even more.

Don't say why they shouldn't die either, if you say something they don't believe is true, like "You are very kind" If they think they are mean they will be like 'Im not nice. Im worthless if im not nice."

Instead just try not to say anything that has to do with what they are going through. Go up to them and start a conversation that couldn't steer off course to talking about her sadness. Treat them like any other friend. (omit friendly roughhousing tho, unless it is too obvious that you aren't doing it to them too. That would make her feel singled out.)

I hope what I had to say helped ;n; I am sorry your friend is going through this, I have been in a similar situation as you derp and I know how hard it is, but I wish you good luck.